The Importance of Creating Lasting Memories

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By Hope Wilbanks

Creating memories with your family that will last forever is important, but so few people ever even consider it. Times spent with familiy are some of the most precious moments and memories you will hang onto forever. Finding ways to spend quality time with your family is not only important, but vital to the stability and unity of your family.

Family is important.
Family is important.

Building Family Memories That Last Forever

Memories last long after the children are grown and gone.

Parents who have children still at home become accustomed to the idea of having the kids around all the time. It’s easy to grow complacent and allow life to consume you to the point that you forget to spend quality time with your kids.

Before you realize it, your kids are grown and out of the house and all you have are your memories. Will those memories be happy or sad ones? Will you only have memories of long hours at work, away from your family? Or will your memories include fun times spent together as a family?

Bad things happen, so make sure your children have good memories to cherish.

Life is rough, even for those who live in the best of circumstances. Even though your life might seem to usually be on an even keel, there are always bad things that happen. When your family is faced with a tough decision or a difficult situation, it is your responsibility to turn it around to make positive memories with your family.

Your children will remember the rough times, but they will most likely remember what you did to pull through it. They’ll remember the picnics you went on as a family, not that you went on picnics because you didn’t have money to dine out. They will remember the long walks in the park, not that you took them to the public park because you couldn’t afford an amusement park.

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marisuewrites 3 years ago

Hi hope!  you are right!  we are weaving memories with every minute of our day and every interaction with our families.  I think it's so important to bring kids into the kitchen, into the chore list, and into our conversations.  Turn off the tv and talk!  =))  thanks for making me think of all that!  =))

I'm glad you were insightful enough to say right out that parents are responsible for solving the problems and building good memories. that's so important. Too many times we wallow in the misery, never reaching a decision that would make things better even if it's only a little, kids need to see us solving problems, not placing blame or being idle.

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