4 Keys To Positive Thinking

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By Hope Wilbanks

There are many self-professed gurus of positive thinking out there today. From Norman Vincent Peale, to Brian Tracy, these gurus share their positive thinking lessons in a huge variety of books, videos, and seminars.

Let me share a secret with you: There is no big secret to positive thinking! Your frame of mind is determined solely by you. You have the choice to think positive, or to allow negative, pessimistic thoughts to control you.

With that said, there are some simple tips I can give you to help you out if you have trouble staying positive. But like I said, I can give you some pointers, but the rest is totally up to you. Start applying these four keys to positive thinking today and see if you notice any changes begin to happen.

The 4 Keys

Key #1: Use positive affirmations every day. One of the easiest and quickest ways to help yourself have a mindset shift is to use positive affirmations. Whether you use affirmations created by others, inspiring quotes, or your own affirmations, they can be extremely helpful in keeping your thought process upbeat. Write down several on index cards and carry them around with you every day. Reach for them to read and repeat throughout the day.

Key #2: Find something good in everything. Believe it or not, if you look hard enough, you will be able to find something good in everything. No matter how bad or troubling the situation, there is always something good that can come from it. The trick is making yourself look at the circumstance in a different light.

Key #3: Be a blessing to someone. One of the biggest reasons for some people’s negative thinking is that they are always focused on themselves. They rarely, if ever, stop to look around them. Instead, they’re always focused on their own problems and life. They’re never interested in what’s happening to others around them. If this describes you, ask yourself every morning when you wake up, “How can I bless someone else today?” Chances are, you’ll walk every step that day looking for an opportunity to help someone else.

Key #4: Forget about negative people. Whether you’ll admit it or not, hanging around negative people will cause you to begin to take on that negative way of thinking, too. So forget about negative people. Create as much distance between them and yourself as possible. In a very short amount of time, you’ll see a positive change in yourself.

Are You A Positive Thinker?

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Hope Wilbanks Hub Author 3 months ago

I have a mantra I repeat often to myself: "Change your thinking and your life will change." It's really true. ;) Thanks for your comment!

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Simplicity4All Level 3 Commenter 3 months ago

this is great! I am recently working on being nicer to myself and being more positive so I will have to test this stuff out although I don't see why it wouldn't work it all makes sense. Well said and thanks for sharing!

daniel 18 months ago

4 great reminders Hope! Mind if I add to KEY #4? I can see how some people may find it difficult to leave the people thinking negative around them because they are likely meaningful people. In this case, I believe that these people are merely a reflection of our negative thinking and when we are to exercise positive thinking, instead of replacing or leaving these "negative people," we can also apply the power of positive thinking to influence their negativeness. Some concentrated thoughts about "MY HUSBAND IS POSITIVE," or whatever else we desire can do the trick, wouldn't you agree?

Thanks for the great post HOPE.

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Amber Arendsen 3 years ago

this is a subject I struggled with for years, and am working my way out of! your four points really sum up how to conquer what can be a very debilatating self imposed affliction.

beautiful picture as well, great hub!

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The How To Hub 3 years ago

Simple but POWERFUL! I like your style, oh & the hub - lol

Shaye

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healwell51 3 years ago

These are the things help, I know by self experience! Your specifications are good! Thank you, Hope Wilbanks!

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Hope Wilbanks Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks Rob...your comment put a smile on my face. :) Have a blessed day!

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Rob Jundt Level 4 Commenter 3 years ago

Being a blessing to other people. Very nicely done. Your hub has blessed me today. Thanks.

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solarshingles 3 years ago

Dear Hope Wilbanks, this a truly wonderful and very useful hub! I still remember reading Dr.Norman Vincent Peale and very many other writers, yet I so vividly remember Dr.Peale and his golden stories. Of course, it is entirely up to us, how do we want to think and feel..., yet this authors could help you in finding the right curse-direction, very much.

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Hope Wilbanks Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks everyone!

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danielpyle 3 years ago

Hope,

Great Hub.....being a great student of self does help to understand our reactions to negative thinking....it also helps to reshape that thinking inside and ultimately outside....Point #3 is essential yet grossly overlooked when first undertaking positive thinking. Thank you for the hub...you are a hub "guru"

Daniel Pyle

Ananta65 3 years ago

You only become like those you hang around with if you let that happen, Stevemark.

I prefer the other view: you become what you think :)

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stevemark122000 Level 1 Commenter 3 years ago

Something I heard long ago and never forgot is that you become like those you hang around with, so hang around with positive people like many here at hub pages. Great Job!

Ananta65 3 years ago

I think I am :) Liked the hub

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